My bf and I lived apart for a period of time then I fell on hard times because my hours were cut so I asked my bf about moving back in with home he was hesitant because he's just let his mom move back in for the fourth time and she was not my biggest fan. We'd lived together in the past and it consisted of a lot of argument 99.9% of them which she started with me I'm just giving myself that .01% in case there's one I'm missing even though I know there's not. I can get along with anybody mostly because I'm very quiet so when it came about the day she called me the B word I was stunned.
Anywho my bf let his mom know me and our kids needed somewhere to stay. At the time she had two rooms in the house one room which she slept in the other she uses for storage. Her immediate response was no. She refused the idea. And for whatever reason e went along with it but I wit get Ito that. I need up scuffling sleeping on ppls floors. Staying here and there with my friends and no during this time he was not only not financially but physically either he did however help for about two months down the road
Anywho now I'm on my feet and his mother is pretty much begging and pleading to babysit and be apart of my kids lives. She disrespected me , I'm over that but to reject a child a place to live yet alone your grandchild is plain wrong and I've yet to let that go. My kids were sleeping on the floor at times he wasnt even 1 year old. My children's father became so upset with me calling me selfish and living in the past but how's my of you would allow someone to treat your children this way and turn around and act like nothing ever happened? And no she never apologized she keeps going through him asking about my kids. BE a woman and accept uouve wrongs. I offered toon time deal with her but in my own time not hers and for him that was not good enough and he took it out on my family who takes care of and helps me support his children.
An I wrong for feeling this way?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:16 PM on Mar. 25, 2013 in General Parenting
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