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Not really sure what to think... Truly don't want to sound insensitive but... My neighbor is a total drama queen. They have rented next door for 2 yrs now & constantly have the police, fire dept., or ambulances over there. Supposidly her christmas tree caught on fire, & she insisted the fire fighters pull it out of the house, but there was no damage to it. Someone supposidly tried to steal their lawnmower, that they leave sitting next to the house all year & doesn't work. Her son had strep so she called an ambulance. Paper towels next to the stove got too close to the burner & started smoking so she called the F.D. Supposidly some lady came up & was trying to fight her while she was on her porch, (even though I never saw anyone go near her house & I had a clear view) so she called the p.d. She's had numerous "health issues" that have her being rushed by ambulance to the hospital countless times, only to be home a few hours later... etc.
Last night we heard their car alarm going off for maybe 3-5 secs. an hr & 1/2 later the cops are in our backyards searching for something. They came up to our house, asked if we had kids, & said to keep our doors locked & keep watch on our kids, because our neighbor's daughter was taking the trash down to the street & some guy tried to grab her. They said there were footprints leading from the park behind our houses to their back windows. (After 2 yrs, & 2 new cars, they "can't afford" mini blinds, so their house is totally open for all to see) They said the neighbor saw the guy hanging around (but couldn't give any kind of description) , So instead of taking the trash out herself, she still sent her 10 y/o daughter out to do it. When the guy supposidly tried to grab her daughter, she handed the youngest off to the other kid, went & got her car keys & supposidly scared the guy off by hitting the car alarm....
I don't know whether to take this seriously or not. Wouldn't you think that if someone was lurking around your house, that you'd take the trash out? And if someone tried to grab your child wouldn't you be rushing out of the house to fight for your child, yelling as loud as poss. to attract more attention & get help? We heard nothing! And trust me, she's been outside yelling before & we could hear it like she was in our house... our living room is right next to their driveway. My kids don't go outside w/out me, we keep our doors locked & blinds closed most of the time. But just wondered if anyone else thinks this story is a made up cry for attention. Unfortunetly her lying & attention seeking has rubbed off on her poor daughter who is just as bad as she is, so she may have gone along w/ the story. We don't talk to them because I got tired of the drama.
Answer by LostSoul88 at 11:13 AM on Mar. 26, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 11:20 AM on Mar. 26, 2013
Answer by m-avi at 11:23 AM on Mar. 26, 2013
The story stinks, but the police have to be thorough. She sounds 'off' enough to have actually made the footprints to the window herself. Why else would she send her daughter to take trash out when she knows there is someone outside? Who does that?
I'm not quite sure what your question is, but I think I would start keeping some kind of journal of her weird activities so when something serious happens and people don't pay attention you can show them of the instances of 'emergency' she has claimed. She is wasting resources that are badly needed in the community. Firetrucks shouldn't be wasting their time on calls that aren't serious, police departments shouldn't be sending police officers out on calls that are made up and ambulances shouldn't be used as a taxi service to stroke the ego of a mentally ill person.
Answer by QuinnMae at 11:31 AM on Mar. 26, 2013
Sure, just change the names of all involved to avoid legal issues. Seriously though, she does sound like she has some mental or emotional imbalances.What is really sad is to think of how many people that actually need those resources that aren't getting them because some kook keeps calling in about every little thing. Plus, that stuff isn't free. There is a charge from most ambulance / fire dept. for transporting you to the hospital. I think many times insurance (if one has that) will pay if you are admitted overnight, but otherwise she is probably getting bills for this stuff and not paying, so of course it's on the tax payer's shoulders. If it's needed - that's one thing. If it's squandered and wasted, well, that's a different thing.
Answer by QuinnMae at 11:57 AM on Mar. 26, 2013
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