He'll be 34. He's gone from the Army to being a temp, to pulling security, to custodial work, to Coast Guard, to pulling security again, to going to school to be an engineer, to going to Culinary School to be a chef, to now going to school to be a Business Manager. And I know it's not going to end there because I know it's not what he really wants to do, but he injured his knee in Iraq and it's likely that being a chef won't be good for his knee. So what do you do when your s/o can't decide on an occupation and keeps changing goals?
I followed him around through most of our marriage, I started going back to school three years ago (missed a quarter cause I had a baby) and I'm close to getting my Bachelor's. I'm happy to take on the financial responsibility once I establish a career for myself and we have financial stability (if that exists in this day and age) but it really worries me that he can't commit to anything. Am I being unreasonable to worry?
I would ask him why he has changed his career goals. Is he doing it because of the economy?
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