so ill admit that *sometimes* i am wrong. sometimes i dont see the error in my ways until someone else points them out. so i thought id come here and ask if my ex is being a pompous ass as usual or if im being a bitch.
he asked if his family could come over for easter and i said no. well, first, he asked if my kids could go there and i told him no but HE is welcome to come hang out with us and participate in our traditions. i think that is fair and more than polite considering id rather him not be here intruding on our easter but i still invited him since im not comfortable with my kids going there (which is another issue entirely based on a safety concern)
but, that wasnt good enough for him. he says it isnt fair to his family. the wonderful, loving family that hasnt seen my kids since christmas and even then it was only an hour. the wonderful family who didnt even show up to their birthday parties that *i* threw and invited them all to. the wonderful loving family that doesnt ever call and ask to speak to them or how they are doing.
so he said that i need to call them and tell them i dont want them to come. ha....ha...ha... what do you think?
btw i told him that putting up and dealing with him is my limit and all that im required to do as their mother, and that his family is his family not mine so i dont owe them an explanation.
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Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 12:52 PM on Mar. 27, 2013
You are right!
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