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im 42 .have 3 children from me cheating ex .my hubby now has brought up my 3 kids for 8 years and have a 7 year old with him,I have a 18 ,14, and a 10,year old that are not hes but wish they whear,have a 7 year old wich is hisso at 42 with a lovely man that treats all my kids the same.whould love to have another baby wich is his.he is 6 years younger then me so really hard.please help.x

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michellet1970

Asked by michellet1970 at 9:54 PM on Mar. 28, 2013 in General Parenting

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  • Help you how?
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 9:56 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

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    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:58 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • No. You'll be 61 when the kid is 18

    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:58 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • My all time fav word....whear
    PandaGwen

    Answer by PandaGwen at 9:59 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • I don't know how anyone here is supposed to help you. And butterfly is right, you should think about the future. If he raised your kids as his own then why do you need to share a child with him?
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 10:07 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • Please learn correct spelling and punctuation before you breed.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:09 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • if you were trying for your 1st baby,i'd say go for it,but your oldest would be 36 years old when their youngest sibling is graduating high school. You don't know how your health will be in your 50's and 60's,and a child can benefit more from a healthy parent
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:11 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • who does the 7 year old belong to?

    "and have a 7 year old with him"
    "have a 7 year old wich is his"

    Oh! That's right, you two already have one together.
    feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 10:16 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • You have 4 kids already.


         Why not let them grow, focus on preparing them for independence and look forward to your future instead of thinking you need or want another baby.        

    LeJane

    Answer by LeJane at 10:20 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

  • I don't get your question, it's too confusing but good luck.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 10:21 PM on Mar. 28, 2013

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