i found this answer in another question. maybe it will help
Here is how to cancel your account:
Click the 'Contact Us' link at the bottom of any CafeMom page.
Under 'Self-Service', click the link that says 'Cancel my CafeMom Account'.
Let us know why you're leaving (optional).
Click the 'Submit' button.
We will process your request and you will receive a cancellation confirmation once your account has been canceled.
There is an area on the cancellation request for you to give feedback (optional) about why you're canceling your account.
that came from the cafe mom admin team to answer another question about the same thing
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at 3:19 PM on Feb. 16, 2009