She's just 18 and had dated and had serious relationships non stop with boys in HS. Almost all lasted at least 6 months to 1 and 1/2 yrs. Most were painful breakups...one pretty nasty. She has always put a lot of effort into maintaining these romances...to a fault...drove us all crazy with it at times!!
Now in college and has said she is bi...and is possibly "dating around" as she puts it...but assures me she is interested in girls at this point. Since that admission I have been with her when she has seen a guy she works with from campus who is quite handsome and did she ever blush after she said hi.
Ok, so my thought was whatever, but at some point you will probably be with just one person so it will be male or female. I guess whoever you fall deeply in love with.
I do have to wonder if she has just gotten disgusted with boys and is experimenting...I mean if you are bi then you can go either way??? People say you are born being gay, straight, etc., and that it is NOT a choice, but...
I'm not well versed here so if anyone can shed light on what this means I'd appreciate it.
I'm pathetically clueless...trying not to be.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:47 PM on Mar. 30, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 1:53 PM on Mar. 30, 2013
Answer by winterglow at 1:54 PM on Mar. 30, 2013
Kinsey says sexuality is on a scale. 6 being absolutely homosexual, 0 being absolutely heterosexual. Most people fall somewhere in between. He also says this can change over time. Don't worry mama, she is young. She will love who she loves. And you will always love her no matter what.
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