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My 15 yr old son raped my 14 yr old daughter and I did call the police and have him arrested.. But I feel that I am the only one out here in my world like this... I have yet to meet someone like me, or talk to someone that can relate and understand how i feel....I wanna run...to have both the victim and the perp...as you children how does that work?? and be the parent and them so young....I want to scream and run and not look back...I feel my son is a monster...And yes he admits to this! It is not a question if he did this or not... Four counts and he committed these acts.... I am living this nightmare and all i want to do is help my daughter forget that this child that I had prior to her was her brother....the worse part is her bio father when she was a toddler did the same and this man has nothing to do with her and my husband who is her step father and the best man I could have ever brought into her life is trying to figure out how to make it all go away... and we are not knowing how.... what to do...She is in therapy and has been in for most of her life....What now...we are supportive....Everything of his has already been removed from our home....it has been two week....My stomach turns when people talk about him, call about him...I don't wanna her his name at all.. I can't....I am angry at God I DO NOT UNDERSTAND!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:58 PM on Mar. 30, 2013 in Teens (13-17)
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Answer by hellokittykat at 1:04 AM on Mar. 31, 2013
You will be angry for a long time. Maybe you and she could take up a hobby like martial arts to get out that anger. I am glad you are reaching out on here. There are so many people who care. There have been times I have hated god, too... but doing that just kept me in 1 place and I never got better. I reconciled with him and began praying again. It seems to work. It doesn't take away the evil in the world but it does send you help. Try journaling to get all these emotions out.
Answer by hellokittykat at 1:17 AM on Mar. 31, 2013