DH and I have our cemetary plots and have for years. We are now thinking about prepaying for our funeral services. If we arainged our services and how we want them carried out would they do it the way we want or if another relative, presumable a a child or grandchild (depending on when we actually do die) wanted it changed would they go with their wishes instead.
Odd question I know, but it is an odd day.
No catagory exactly covers this so since it is an investment in a way, I opted for here.
Answer by Ballad at 7:15 PM on Apr. 1, 2013
My mom had a prepaid plan the the Neptune Society. It was very helpful to me that everything was already done. The only thing I did was plan a memorial service.
Answer by musicmaker at 6:30 PM on Apr. 1, 2013
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Answer by tessiedawg at 6:39 PM on Apr. 1, 2013
Dardenalla, I very much appreciated that she had done this. She made it clear what SHE wanted, and that's what mattered. She wanted to be cremated and her ashes spread in the sea, just like my Dad. We did not have a funeral. I still had a memorial service, and I planned the entire thing, so I did have some say. Worked for me.
Answer by musicmaker at 6:54 PM on Apr. 1, 2013
Well Dard, I guess after reading all this, you just have to spell it all out for them & tell them if it's changed in any way, you will come back to haunt them! lol :p
Answer by mrsmom110 at 9:11 PM on Apr. 1, 2013
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