So my twins turn 10 this Sunday, they are supposed to have a slumber party with 2 of their friends each.
The problem is Twin A has been very disrespectful, defiant, not doing any chores, and is also being rude to her sisters. Twin B on the other hand has been very polite, pitching in with house work, overall positive attitude.
Anyway, I want to cancel Twin As party, I don't feel like she deserves it at all, but that would impede on Twin Bs party. I don't want Twin A to think that she can be disrespectful and still have the party, but I also don't want Twin B to have to lose out on a party because of her sisters actions....
What would you do?, and any moms with twins ever have this happen before, I would love to hear about your solution.
I would not treat them as twins. I would treat them as individuals that by chance have the same birthday. The one that was acting bad. Would not get the birthday. The one that was acting right would.
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