Is he more concerned about your happiness than he is his own? Does he want to please you? Does he put your needs ahead of his own? Is he proud to introduce you to his friends and family? Does he seem to appreciate you for your ethics, morals, and opinions, or is he always trying to get you to veer from your convictions to honor his own? Does he seem to be interested in you for who you are as a person or does he seem to be attracted only to the physical? These are but a few of the questions you should ask yourself. You cannot allow yourself to make these kinds of assessments based purely on your emotions or how you "feel" about him. Also, I would caution you to observe his behavior for a period of several months before "falling" for him. Most people can fake these things for a period of time, but eventually their true selves will show themselves. Another biggie: Observe how he treats his mother and his sisters!
at 11:30 AM on Apr. 4, 2013