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i have a strong attraction to bfs best friend.... and every time i see him i notice the raw desire in his eyes. it only makes it worse. wth do i do?!

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:02 PM on Apr. 4, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • avoid him, it's just sexual desire. Nothing more right? If you love your man just stay away from he's friend.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 2:03 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Break up with your boyfriend. Then stay friends with his friend & a few MONTHS (not days) later see if there can be more.
    This is the only way that could successfully work.

    Answer by 3libras at 2:05 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • IDK, how much do you love your boyfriend? Break up with now boyfriend, if you are that attracted to someone else.

    Answer by jerseydiva at 2:05 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Avoid him like the plague! unless of course you want out of your current relationship, lust does not last long love......

    Answer by older at 2:09 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • well i wish but he is taken and has a baby and he is over all the time.... im afraid one day we are going to errupt and every1 will knw

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:11 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Lust is usually not a good thing. Most of the time I would tell yo to avoid him. But this is a boyfriend not a DH. Depends on how much you want to stay with your current BF. Best thing to do is leave him alone tell you are not with your current BF. Then see if a relationship could happen with him.


    Answer by louise2 at 2:15 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • bullshit, you won't erupt, you will be a silly homewrecker! If you don't like your man, then leave him. Attraction is part of human nature, maybe you can jack him off in the bathroom while your boyfriend is asleep, I am sorry the grass is greener on the other side, either leave your boyfriend, or tell him exactly how much you desire his best friend, you have children right?

    Answer by jerseydiva at 2:23 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Leave him alone, unless you want to hurt your boyfriend and lose the relationship you have now.

    Answer by Ballad at 2:25 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Lust is unsustainable. It has no depth. If you love your BF or respect the other's guys current relationship or your own, leave it alone. Maybe you need to spice things up with your BF. We've all been there, attraction is human nature, but lust cannot hold a candle to love.

    Answer by ggsmom333 at 2:31 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • "raw desire" - Admit it... You're really E.L. James, aren't you?

    Answer by ABeaverhausen at 2:33 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

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