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I just confronted dh about his drinking adult content

But I'm a huge pussy and did it in a text. I just get scared in person and wind up not saying anything. I'm nervousness so I thought I'd ask you guys to send some good thoughts my way. Please and thank you.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:52 PM on Apr. 4, 2013 in Relationships

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  • What did you say?
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:53 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • I just basically told him that I wanted to talk to him about it, that I wasn't angry, and that I loved him. I don't want to get in a fight, I just want to talk
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:55 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Well,I hope for the best for you both. be strong!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:57 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Thanks
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:00 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • That is a good start.. you may get nervous, or lose track of the subject when you're face to face with him though. It might help if you write everything major topic you want to bring up so you don't leave any out.
    anestheticsex

    Answer by anestheticsex at 7:06 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Someting is wrong in your marriage, if you can not talk to your DH about anything and everything. JMO. If I have an issue with my DH I just tell him.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 7:19 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Oh yeah, definitely. At least when it comes to this. He's really sensitive about the issue and I've being being a pushover.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:25 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Good luck momma
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 7:27 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Now, don't let it go, if you are truly concerned, tell him you will support him be there for him etc,, you have taken the first step, so go forward with it!
    jerseydiva

    Answer by jerseydiva at 8:40 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • If you have to be scared to confront your husband about his drinking, your marriage is NOT working!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 9:14 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

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