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Would you consider this cruel punishment?

Recording your kid throwing a tantrum and then showing it to them. My daughter usually throws tantrums for a good half an hour. I started recording them and showing them to her and now she stops after ten minutes when I show them to her over and over.

It works!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:55 PM on Apr. 4, 2013 in Parenting Debate

Answers (24)
  • How is watching yourself on tv a punishment?
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:59 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • No, LOL. We have a video of my youngest son flipping out, and about 30 seconds into it, he realizes I have my phone in my hand, and asks me "What are you doing?! Tell me! I really want to know!!" It is still one of my favorite videos.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 7:59 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Cruel? No. It's just showing how ridiculous their behavior is.. And f they're embarrassed by watching it - they'll stop doing it all together. I like your idea!
    anestheticsex

    Answer by anestheticsex at 7:59 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • nope, and why would you think it was mean?
    jerseydiva

    Answer by jerseydiva at 8:10 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • No
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 8:10 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Cruel, no. I'm not sure my daughter would take it as a punishment, though. She'd probably ham it up and think it was cool!
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 8:15 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Cause I feel a little guilty for thinking its kinda funny.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:23 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • Nope. We've done it before.
    anng.atlanta

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 8:27 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • It is not actually a punishment. It is just showing her how silly she is acting. It wont work for long.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 8:27 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

  • It may work for a short time.
    Maybe try teaching your child in another way that that behavior is unacceptable.
    sahmamax2

    Answer by sahmamax2 at 8:34 PM on Apr. 4, 2013

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