I recently discovered I am pregnant. It is nothing my husband or I planned on. He is almost 48, I am going to be 40 this summer. We already have one son and considered ourselves done. He is convinced that this isn't a good thing and doesn't want it. Many of his reasons to not have this child I can understand, (too old, financial concerns health issues), yet I can't bring myself to give him what he wants. Every time I think of it I feel so sick, sad and guilty for even considering it. He is resolute about not wanting it. I feel like we are on opposite sides of a huge canyon with no island in between. How can we come together? I feel so lost.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Apr. 5, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by virginiamama71 at 1:42 PM on Apr. 5, 2013
Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 PM on Apr. 5, 2013
I would recommend not getting an abortion if you do not want one. It isn't a decision you can reverse once done and you alone will have to shoulder the burden emotionally. Maybe suggest some counseling to get help talking it through with a neutral third party.
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