I'm good friends,with two people that are dating well today the one said something which was downright mean.
She did not tell me to keep it in confidence but should something be said out of care for the other person?
We were talking about relationships..have more than once.
Again..She went into telling me about his faults.. from his OCD to the fact,he is not deserving to have kids because he is kinda slow & that was the start of it.
I feel based on other conversation factors,she is with him for the fact just to not be alone.. use him,for his disability money.
She dropped out of technical school,working since being with him. (he did not make her,do that.)
She has kids,numerous baby fathers & only has some custody of one.. yet,she feels he does not deserve to be a dad.
She does not,want to be married to him.
He loves her & he is going to waste time on her.
The guy is very generous & giving.. He was willing to help a friend by being a donor,to have kids so her & her hubby could be parents.
He knows the importance of family & all that is stands for.. pretty smart,for being dumb,like she claims he is.
She said these people are dumb,to consider using him.. you can't trust,how the kid would turn out.
Although,when she needs a sitter for her one child she uses this person she talks bad about?
Now all this being,said where does your friendship stand on staying quiet?
I told her,if she is complaining that much why stay or talk to him but never happens?
So,in a way feel it falls on me to say something but in a sensitive manner for all parties best interests..
Otherwise,i'm just as bad like she is,for not being honest to many problems going on.
So,ideas what to do,say or not do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:56 PM on Apr. 9, 2013 in Relationships
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