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Dealing with this at work. I have 2 coworkers that are complete bitches for absolutely no reason. They refuse to ever do anything but smile to my face but will send e-mails intended to be directed at me, yet seem vague to everyone who is unaware of how they treat me. My supervisors are greatly aware of their attitudes but because they have never done anything outright against company policy, I'm simply told to "let it go" and I do. I get over things fairly quickly but it's literally every other day that I'm being persecuted by them for any little reason they can find. (I was called out in an e-mail the other day for an extremely minor typo on and extremely low priority e-mail.....seriously???) I treat EVERYONE the way I'd want to be treated, but in return I treat others how they treat me. Plain and simple. SO ANNOYED AND FED UP RIGHT NOW!
Can anyone give me a good reason why people are like this?
Answer by noel1978 at 12:46 PM on Apr. 12, 2013
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Answer by Nimue930 at 1:02 PM on Apr. 12, 2013
People like that dig their own graves. Eventually they will be the ones to answer for their actions. I worked with a girl like that years ago. She tried everything to get me in trouble. I just totally ignored her. Then I was offered a new job in a better office where I worked. She ambushed me in the bathroom & told me not to take the job. I just walked past her. Then they gave a test because we were all provisional employees & she failed & got fired. I continued to work there for 13 years! So time will take care of this for you. If you like your job then just do your best & continue to be nice to everyone but just ignore THEM. They'll be gone sooner than later!
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 1:11 PM on Apr. 12, 2013
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