It may be a way for her to have control of part of her life. Try having her clean any mess and rinse out her own clothing - hand rinsing in the sink and then putting it in the washer- or whatever works in your house. Don't be critical of her, she may not even understand why she is doing it. Just calmly say Oh your pants are wet? OK, pick out some dry and wipe up the mess and rinse the wet ones in the sink. No criticism, just calm. You should ask her if she has pain when peeing in case she has a urinary infection. And it would be worth asking her doctor, too. Good luck!
at 9:45 PM on Apr. 12, 2013