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I am married to an psychological abusive gangster (no job).. how do I keep him from seeing our child.

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atma

Asked by atma at 3:15 AM on Apr. 14, 2013 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • Get out. Go to a women's shelter and get the staff there to help you file for divorce.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 3:29 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Find a safe place to stay & get a lawyer. However, unless he has a record or you have proof he is unfit, then I doubt you will be able to deny him visitation. GL
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:17 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Move and do not tell him were you are at. Preferably move to a different state.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 7:32 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Divorce him move change ur number get a restraining order like pp said a women's shelter can and will help you!!
    rachel216

    Answer by rachel216 at 8:24 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Who would have ever thought in a million years that a gangster would be abusive? Look y'all she isn't going to get out, she's not going to run away from him. He will find her & the females in the gang will beat her ass. Only fighting chance she has is to move far away ( which she probably can't afford) & hire a great attorney.

    Maybe you should have made better life choices from the get go.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 8:42 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Go to a shelter. There are people that will help you, even with relocating to another state.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 9:24 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Maybe you should have made better life choices from the get go.
    Answer by funlovinlady an hour ago


    well THAT is helpful (not)

    How about giving some helpful suggestions, so she can keep her children safe.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Hey anon, guess what her odds of keeping her kid safe are pretty much zero. It is what it is, obviously you know so much about gang life but they will track her down. How is you jumping my shit giving her good advice!? Oh yeah I forgot you had nothing to add, ignorant twat.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 10:07 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • I'm of the same mindset as funlovinlady.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:23 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

  • Maybe you should turn state's evidence against him & go into witness protection.

    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 11:28 AM on Apr. 14, 2013

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