I have a friend on FB who posted things that her son said to her today. She said he was mad because he had to clean up a mess he made and was posting and joking around about the things he said to her. The one that got me the most was him telling her that he never felt like he belonged in or fit well in the family...and she was laughing about it.
So...when your child says something like that or just plain mean to or about you when angry, do you think it is just them being angry and wanting to hurt you or do you think that is just a time when they feel no inhibitions to speak the truth and they really feel what they are saying?
I don't know...I get the "you are mean" or "I hate you," but that what she said he said just seems real. If my DD said something like that, I think I'd be re-evaluating how we are as a family.
Answer by Ballad at 12:04 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
Answer by girlwithC at 12:04 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
Answer by girlwithC at 12:30 AM on Apr. 15, 2013