Not sure if I mentioned that he opened a new acct for his paycheck. He has left $13 for me and the kids. But the newest b.s. is:
i just returned home last night from my weekend at my parents'. he had moved all his expensive property out of the home (to the neighbors I later discovered) and put a freaking lock on the master bedroom door so I cannot get in. he was also pissed that I brought our son home at 7:30pm (on MY weekend with him!) so at 8pm he takes off with our 8 yr old to see a movie. Plus he was yelling at me in front of our son last night. He is doing an amazing job at making it hard for me to stay until the end of the school semester. oh, and the house stank of alcohol and there were beer and smirnoff ice raspberry bottles (did he WANT me to know women were there?? damn) all over the kitchen and empty cases of Bud & Newcastle in the trash cans. He sure is living it up without me around.
I honestly don't know how the hell I will survive here until the semester is over. I am a nervous wreck.
Answer by LostSoul88 at 10:44 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
Answer by QuinnMae at 10:45 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
Answer by jerseydiva at 10:46 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
OH, and the fact that he is doing this all in front of your son is just one more nail in his coffin.
Answer by QuinnMae at 10:47 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
Answer by LostSoul88 at 11:05 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
That man is out of his freaking mind!
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:09 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
My best advice (already mentioned): document, document, document. What he says, how you feel, what he does, the condition of the place when you're not there. ALL of it.
And a few million of these
Answer by Rosehawk at 11:38 AM on Apr. 15, 2013
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:55 AM on Apr. 15, 2013