DH's friend had an aneurysm about a week+ ago. He was going to go with another friend but that plan was changed and he didn't go. Then he finds out that the friend was taken back to the hospital after having a stroke and is partially paralyzed. I've been asking him how the guy is doing? When is he going to see him? Does he want me to call and check on him? But DH is like no there's no need to call or visit him he's going to be sleep any way. I even offered to let DS spend the night at a relatives and then after taking DD to school we could go together and see him but was told no that's not necessary. His wife has family that's there and can give her a break. I'm not trying to be negative & want to stay positive but know that life changes in the blink of an eye. My father used to say the same things,,, I'll see "John Doe" later, time goes past & he gets busy or sidetracked and you hear that the person passed. I don't want DH to have regrets about not visiting him. I know it's been a while since they've talked or seen each other. It's been 7 years since his friend came over to our place. I remember how long because that was when we lost our daughter and he came over. I don't want to overstep but I do want his wife to know that we were concerned and was thinking of him even if he is asleep. I don't think that DH should use a 2nd party to find out how the guy's doing when he / I can just call.
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