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3 Bumps

Dating for weeks and we already want to get married and have kids

We believe we are soul mates. His 2 kids are all for it, they talk about the wedding more than we do.
This goes along with other 2 quetions, it's been one long stream of emotion.
Not "love at first sight" or "infatuation" more of a matter of fact love, I cannot describe it
Be nice. Thanks

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Asked by lullaby572 at 6:05 PM on Apr. 18, 2013 in Relationships

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  • Go for it! Congrats!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 6:06 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:09 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • I think you are nuts but I'm jaded

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 6:12 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • Love is never matter of fact. It is either grows or deflates with time. IMHO- you need to wait to see which way it goes.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 6:13 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • It happens. Congratulations. I probably wouldn't do it that way anymore, but my husband and I fell for each other that way. We were married for eleven years, and we were very happy for a long while. I know what you mean about matter-of-fact love. Just be honest with yourself an make sure you're not ignoring what you don't want to see in your man.

    Answer by Ballad at 6:15 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • I personally would wait... especially since you both have kids. But with that being said... My grandparents met in September, were engaged in October and married in November. They were together almost 49 years when my grandpa died. It can work, but it is rare.

    Good luck.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 6:15 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • I don't think it is a good idea, but it isn't my life. If you guys think it is right you have to do what you want to do. Good luck.

    Answer by kmath at 6:16 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • I think it's too soon. my dh and I dated for 4 years before we got married, and lived together before too. it doesn't guarantee a great marriage either b/c we want to kill each other at times so, idk I think you're being silly

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 6:22 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • Way too soon, and especially inappropriate to already have the kids involved on this level. Hopefully for their sake you're right and this is deeper than puppy love, but I doubt that very much. Puppy love is awesome for what it's worth and all relationships should experience it. True love takes longer than a few weeks to develop.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 6:27 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

  • get your heads checked.

    Answer by tnm786 at 6:29 PM on Apr. 18, 2013

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