I have issues with my husband and one of the problems is that a couple specially one person can start a normal conversation just to share thoughts, has it ever happened to you that you were not thinking about anything and just ask something and just because you ask something that doesn't mean that there's a reason why, there's something behind that question?
In my case I think being naive and just asking something is bringing me a lot of trouble because I just ask something and he gets mad asking me what is behind that question, why I'm asking that, what's the purpose of that question and at that moment I'm thinking if I knew this stupid question was going to bring all these problems I would never ask. Yesterday, I just ask something something stupid about a place he visited and I just mention it just to have a pleasant conversation and it turn at the end me explaining why I ask that like feeling that even in stupid questions I'm doing something wrong. I don't even ask anymore because I don't want to deal explaining something. When that happened and because I'm tired of him it was 8:30 and I didn't care and go to sleep instead of me sitting with him and pretend. Another example I said we'll we could consider renting a small apartment to save money. I just gave him the reason and the reason is to save money and we have talk about saving money in different aspects but what he says..... What is the main reason to move? I don't understand! What is the purpose for that? Whats really behind that question? Tell me why you just said that! I get frustrated with him, annoyed and even though I said it was to save money he's not satisfied and he wants an answer but I just gave him one. I'm venting, I'm tired of him. I feel I can't say anything because I get in trouble for just opening my mouth and I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. Yes, I've talked to him but is useless. Therapy? He doesn't want. What do you suggest?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:25 PM on Apr. 19, 2013 in Relationships
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