My dd9 has a friend that she talks to on the phone and they were talking for awhile until one day her friend just started to do other things so she & my dd did not talk as much. About a month goes by and I notice they were talking again. I did ask my dd why wasn't she talking to her awhile back and she said bc her friend started to act different.
Well yesterday her friend asked if my dd can go over to her house and maybe go do something together. ( I have not yet met her mother but have talked to her on the phone) Anyway I wanted to let her go but my dh said no bc of the way her friend was acting towards my dd and where they might be going was about 30 mins. away my said no it was too soon to let our girl go any where. OMG!!! My dd had a fit and starts balling and sayi g we never let her do anything ( can you imagine the teenage years coming ? )
I wanted to let her go even though haven't met anyone just by phone but I can't help stop thinking of what if something did happen or something wouldn't have happened when do ou draw the line when mom says yes and dad says no and if dad said yes bc mom wanted her to go and something happened I would have never been able to live with myself so should I say what my dh says he has a good judge of character of things...weird.
Thanks ladies sorry so long...ugh!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:10 PM on Apr. 20, 2013 in Tweens (9-12)
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