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If i was trying to look up someone what is the best site to use?

I am trying to find my father and talk to him. I am now 25yrs old and every time i ever had the chance to when i was younger my mom would get in the way of it so we didn't have a chance to talk! Now i am on my own and i really would like to talk to him. Trying to look him up but i would like a idea what are the best site to use? I used yellowpages but really no luck with that. I really hope i can find him to hopefully have a relationship with him because i don't with my mother. I look more like him then my mom.  Thank you : )

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:00 PM on Apr. 20, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (11)
  • Zabasearch.com has a lot of info.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 7:01 PM on Apr. 20, 2013

  • Google and then look up any name hits, esp social media ones.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 7:11 PM on Apr. 20, 2013

  • Thank you guys : )
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:18 PM on Apr. 20, 2013

  • Might try FB. I found my bio father after 20 years that way. Who would have guessed ;)
    Allicia C.

    Answer by Allicia C. at 8:36 PM on Apr. 20, 2013

  • Anyone have some Free sites that are actually free that i can use to look up my father? I tried fb no luck so far.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:48 PM on Apr. 20, 2013

  • Zabasearch is free and I've had a great deal of luck with it.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:58 AM on Apr. 21, 2013

  • What do you know about him?
    His full name - dob - where did he grow up and go to school - profession or military service.
    Do you know anything about your grandparents?
    Was he married/divorced from your mother?

    An adoption search angel would be another avenue for you to locate.
    adopteeme

    Answer by adopteeme at 5:43 AM on Apr. 21, 2013

  • I know his full name,where he was born,He is divorced from my mom, I know where he lives and has lived

    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:23 AM on Apr. 21, 2013

  • Try spokeo
    Try several search engines with his name. Google, yahoo, bing, ask.com, duckduckgo

    You know where he's at now?
    Or has been? Check real property (tax) records.

    Have you tried to send a letter to his last known address?
    I've done this with a note on the envelope asking post office to NOT forward to a (new) address, but to return the letter with an address correction.

    adopteeme

    Answer by adopteeme at 12:02 PM on Apr. 21, 2013

  • Does he have siblings? Check for them too.
    Do you know anything about his parents- your grandparents?
    Check for them as well.
    adopteeme

    Answer by adopteeme at 12:07 PM on Apr. 21, 2013

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