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Facebook and my stbx. *ok I blocked him!!!*

I never had a FB until I discovered his infidelity. FB was one of those things I thought we had both agreed not to have. Well, turns out he had one since 2009. That's how he reconnected with the ho-bag in Ohio that he's screwing around with. Anyway, to sum up my question...
I now have a FB.
My stbx has learned that I have a FB.
He sent me a friend request.
I declined it.
He just sent me a message saying "you won't even accept my friend request?"

Why would he need to be my FB friend? Just to snoop is what I think. Plus I don't want to see whatever he's doing or talking to on FB. I am trying to separate myself from him.

So, reject request was the right thing, right?

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Asked by Tesserae at 8:27 PM on Apr. 25, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (19)
  • correct

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:30 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • Yep. No reason to befriend him on FB.

    Answer by louise2 at 8:31 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • I am thinking after the other day's post and today's post, he is re-thinking his choices, to bad he doesn't have one to make any more, stick to your guns momma!

    Answer by jerseydiva at 8:32 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • You made the right choice.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 8:32 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • Too bad there isn't a button on Facebook when you reject a friend request that says, "Not just no, hell no! Are you freakin' kidding me, or are you really as numb as a turd?"

    Answer by Ballad at 8:35 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • WTF?!? Seriously, it's like he wants you to see everything.

    I know you're in a no-fault divorce state (I am too) but, all of his shit can & will affect custody.

    Answer by 3libras at 8:38 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • lol Ballad!
    He is dumb.
    Last night he came home and tried to sit right next to me on the couch. Asked me about my day and my weekend plans. Then tried to chat about the show like we used to do.
    He's such an idiot. It's like he doesn't get what the hell he has done to me.

    Comment by Tesserae (original poster) at 8:38 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • Yes, rejecting him was the right thing to do.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 8:39 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • why don't you just block him too.... then he can't see you at all, ever.

    Answer by Crafty26 at 9:07 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

  • He's not your friend.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 9:20 PM on Apr. 25, 2013

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