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2 Bumps

Wonder why she didn't like our advice?

The lawyers wife called us mean!


Asked by Anonymous at 2:52 PM on Apr. 29, 2013 in About CafeMom

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Answers (15)
  • I missed something good??

    Answer by m-avi at 4:27 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • because she doesn't realize 2 keep points:
    1) she either lives penniless and miserable and disrepected, mistreated, manipulated, lied to, deceived, stolen from, and emotionally abused OR she lives penniless with a chance to start a new and better life for herself. She doesn't get that she is penniless either way and only SHE gets to choose to live penniless and ________.
    ** That makes us mean because the truth hurts!

    2) She's on board a sinking ship and is afraid to swim - and told she can't swim by dh. What she's missing is THE SHIP IS SINKING - you either jump now with a chance to swim away or be pulled to the depth by the "family" that "loves" her because THEY are the ones that can't swim (or won't). One way or another she's going to have to swim... it's much easier is you don't have people/leeches hanging on you as a life-raft!

    (and I hope she reads this. The truth SUCKS! )

    Answer by daylily888 at 2:59 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • Aw
    To answer you, because she wanted us to tell her how to change them. She did not want to hear that she needed to change herself.

    Answer by Dardenella at 2:58 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • Not enough virtual hugs. Too much "get your shit together."

    Answer by Ballad at 3:08 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • IDK,were we suppose to come up with some way to fix her family's attitudes and actions?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 2:53 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • ok...

    Answer by midnightmoma at 2:54 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • Troll

    Answer by DJDNY at 2:54 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • If her story is real, maybe she left out a part....Her husband left her a long time ago, the children are grown and the child support, alimony is gone, now she has to take care of herself. Hard to do when someone has always taken care of you.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 3:04 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • And if you sold your house why would you leave the other one there and still pay on it? It does not make any sense.

    Answer by Dardenella at 3:11 PM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • Missed something.

    Answer by ABeaverhausen at 2:58 PM on Apr. 29, 2013