I'm 38, single mom, ex has been absent fir three years now / no child support, no contact.
Bought a modular home in 2005,doing okay financially / still employed same place semces 2001. Have moved up the ladder when I could.
To my problem: I have one brother, 12 years older than I. This past summer him & his wife seperated. (Personal option: this was a good thing) they'd been together sense 1992. No really talk of actual divorce and no children.
Anyhow, they lost their home and basically everything fir what it was worth meaning they dudnt live in a nice part if town and really didn't own much of value. She lives in an apparent and is no disability. (Ugh, that's another story - she used him fir all he had, he has nothing more so she's moved on - again my option)
Problem: he's moved in with our patents, has not found a job,(he's being picky in a small town)
Anyhow, yes my mom has helped me out from time to time financially but now she's asked me to borrow money to pay off an $800 loan and $900 for my brother car insurance (6 month policy)
I can use my vehicle - that I paid off in march.
Would you do this?
My mom asked him to put his truck in her name to save in the insurance - he refused. U dint know, if that would help or not he'd still have to be listed as the driver.
He wants a job with insurance and all - too bad - get a job!
I can afford the payments, as if I still had a vehicle loan but the extra money fir food and kids summer activist has been nice. I've worked my tail off to get where I am - while he's being picky and sitting at my parents home all day.
But than I realize maybe I do owe MYMom somethjng. Which I realize if I don't pay it - shell have too.
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