I catch my boyfriend 'looking' a lot at other girls. He doesn't look long enough to consider it staring, and he doesn't turn his head or anything. But when you look, you look and then look away quickly. But with him, e will look at another girl, and hold it for a few seconds. Kind of like observing them or something? He says its an issue with him, and his family does it a lot too. They just stare at people, period.
I'm not buying it. I still think he kind of observes women. When I asked him about it. He tells me he's not comparing me to them, he just looks and thinks "my girl is beautiful". He says he doesn't think anything perverted, and he doesn't want them or anything. He just likes to look at people! Period!
I feel like this can be a huge issue in our problem. I'm very insecure as it is. I don't appreciate him observing other women. He even does it when he's watching tv. Maybe I'm over thinking this, because again. I am insecure... He does enjoy physical appearance. I'm sure he likes personality too. But he still very much enjoys nice bodies/women. Hes even told me there was nothing really good about his ex, but that her body was really nice, and she was sweet. seriously? I just figured, at 31 years old, you would have been passed that phase!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:38 PM on Apr. 30, 2013 in Relationships
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Answer by virginiamama71 at 6:06 PM on Apr. 30, 2013
That is all you have to worry about? Him stealing quick looks at females. You are talking about grown women, right? You said GIRLS?
If he is not gawking. Don't worry about it. Go buy some blinders and make him wear them.
Answer by louise2 at 5:26 PM on Apr. 30, 2013
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