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Where is it if she don't have it?

This past Jan. we received a letter saying my dh ex was gonna get our tax refund well all this time we assumed she has received it bc when my dh asked her she NEVER responded.

Today we find out she HAS NOT received a dime.

WTH? Is going on.

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:53 PM on Apr. 30, 2013 in Money & Work

Answers (9)
  • It takes awhile for her to get it. Around 3 to 6 months.

    Answer by PandaGwen at 5:09 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • Wow! Why?

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:16 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • It's the government for you dear. That take their sweet time with all the red tape.

    Answer by PandaGwen at 5:18 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • Unlike the citizens, who damn well better get their taxesin by April 15, Uncle Sam can take his sweet time forking over the refunds.

    Answer by Ballad at 5:41 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • in 2011, i didnt see my ex's refund until September. that was the last i ever saw from him financially too lol

    Answer by tnm786 at 5:53 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • It takes them several months usually to get it around to the ex. Not sure exactly how it all works, but it's never immediate.

    Answer by wendythewriter at 6:16 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • I agree the gov. takes their slow sweet time!!

    Answer by Fairymom32 at 11:09 PM on Apr. 30, 2013

  • And everybody is shocked. Ever considered adjusting your withholding so you hold on to your money as long as possible? I've been told that doesn't work with all the credits, but it is worth looking into. I'm not in favor of giving the government an interest free loan.

    Answer by LoveMyDog at 7:14 AM on May. 2, 2013

  • @ LoveMyDog
    This is the first I hear this...duh! How would I go about doing that? And Thanks ;)

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:59 AM on May. 3, 2013

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