I feel miserable. I'm never happy. I'm always angry. I fake a smile the majority of the time. I have many things to be happy for but I just can't be. I just want to cry when I think about the things to be happy for.
I have the most precious 3 year old boy! My husband works and allows me to stay at home with him. I just recently became pregnant and its what I wanted! I have a home, a car, just about everything I want I get. But I'm.just miserable.
I sit at home everyday all day everyday. I couldn't go to work if I wanted to be noone would hire me BC I have social anxiety terribly bad and would flip.out at the interview. I don't have any friends. My husband is my only friend and he works all the time. I hate driving BC I have panic attacks and it is one of my biggest fears so I don't unless I just have to!
I don't take care of myself, I don't clean, I feel like I'm a terrible parent BC I don't play with my son every rime he wants and I don't fix him healthy meals. And I get I'll with Jim really easy which I hate! I always love on him and.apologize after I do it, but I shouldn't do it in the first place.
I feel like I hate my husband sometimes and feel likened be better off without him sometimes. I feel like he makes me this way. He doesn't show me any attention besides when he wants to have sex which I hate as well. I just don't know what to do. I will be fine until he pisses me off and my whole day is ruined.
Is he my problem? :(((( I just want this to go away so I van be a better mom to my son and soon to be baby!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on May. 5, 2013 in Relationships
Have you ever tried therapy?
Answer by virginiamama71 at 1:26 PM on May. 5, 2013
Answer by Izsarejman at 1:28 PM on May. 5, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 1:34 PM on May. 5, 2013
Yes, you need to talk to someone. A real live person. I have anxiety issues as well and it really helps me to talk to a live person about the things that are causing anxiety. It also helps me to write them down and then analyze them. Sometimes I can decide on my own if they are justifiable or if I'm just being silly. Another thing that helps me is Valerian Root. But since you are pregnant, talk to your dr before taking it. Also, pregnancy hormones can play a factor in what you have described. As a mother of 3 children, I can relate. Don't focus on the negative, find positives to focus on. Make a list of your strengths, things you are good at, things you do well, and things you like about your husband. When you are feeling down, read that list.
Answer by tempsingl3mom at 1:40 PM on May. 5, 2013
Answer by anime_mom619 at 1:45 PM on May. 5, 2013
Answer by m-avi at 1:45 PM on May. 5, 2013
Answer by tempsingl3mom at 2:01 PM on May. 5, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 2:06 PM on May. 5, 2013
I think you are right ! he is the problem because you are not in love with the man otherwise making love would not be a hateful thing....aside from the fact that you have all sorts of emotional problems that need to be addressed by a professional. I am not an advocate for pharmaceuticals but they will ease your pain somewhat, but in the long run they will give you something else to worry about..try to get at the bottom of your feelings..and maybe this will make you understand yourself....
Answer by older at 2:09 PM on May. 5, 2013