He lives with his weird friends and stays away for days and then come home everyonce in a while for food and a nice bed. He does not have a place to stay but does have a job. What would you suggest?Answer Question
Answer by LostSoul88 at 12:20 PM on May. 8, 2013
I would offer him his house and food and bed anytime he needs it, in my book the home he grew up in will always be his refuge if he ever needs it....there is nothing more comforting than going home to the safety he felt as a child....as long as he is not asking you for $ what is the problem?
Answer by older at 12:21 PM on May. 8, 2013
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 12:21 PM on May. 8, 2013
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Answer by Ballad at 1:04 PM on May. 8, 2013
Who is paying for college? The staying with you when it is convenient for him would not fly with me. I would inform him he is moving out. He has a job? Get your own place.
Answer by louise2 at 2:03 PM on May. 8, 2013
Answer by QuinnMae at 2:51 PM on May. 8, 2013
It's so frustrating when they are making obvious mistakes & you can't do much but give your advice & sit back & watch the show. Tell him taking off a year will just make it harder to return later. Maybe he could just go to college part-time & work more hours to catch up on bills & save money. If you do not suspect drugs or other illegal activities, I agree w/ the moms about letting him have a safe place to stay when he's not crashing at his friends' houses. As many times as I've been at my wits ends with my 22 y/o, I know I couldn't slam the door in his face unless it was necessary for the well-being of the rest of my family. (ie. drugs) GL
Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:19 PM on May. 8, 2013
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