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Should I be happy wit it?

My dds dad only wantsto take her from 12pm-930-10 pm when I get off work? He's off the whole day so I fig I would drop her off in the am . He says no cuz he isn't goin to wake up early on his day off! He works at a gas station so it's not like he does hard labor! Should I be happy that he's even taking her? Or does that sound stupid?

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rachel216

Asked by rachel216 at 7:50 PM on May. 8, 2013 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • He sounds like a lazy dad, but some men don't see their kids at all. I wouldn't force him to see your little girl more than he wants to because then he might pull away even more.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 8:03 PM on May. 8, 2013

  • I wouldn't drop my child somewhere I wasn't sure they would be supervised. If you think he would fall back asleep then it's not the best place for her to be until he is awake for the day.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 8:27 PM on May. 8, 2013

  • He'd stay up with her he just doesn't want to get up in the first place
    rachel216

    Comment by rachel216 (original poster) at 8:28 PM on May. 8, 2013

  • What does your custody order say?
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 9:39 PM on May. 8, 2013

  • I think you should be happy with the contact that she is receiving. This is not about you but her. If he is violating a custody order then document it.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 11:53 PM on May. 8, 2013

  • There is no visitation order
    rachel216

    Comment by rachel216 (original poster) at 5:22 PM on May. 10, 2013

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