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My ex and I went on a break last year. We have a 2 year old son together and I was going to school and he was starting a new job. The stress of the everything got the better of us and we decided to just take a break for a while. He started dating someone and I started dating someone. 4 months ago he text me wanting to talk. We met up at a grocery store parking lot and he told me that he didn't know why we weren't together. He said he misses his family and wants us to work this out. I told him we have to start slow, as if we were dating each other again. We both decided to break up with our new bf and gf .
We have been back together for 3 months and things are going great. We take couples counseling once a month and it really helps us get through the tough day to day stresses that made us break up in the first place. Anyway, my ex took the breakup very well and he said that he understood that I still loved him and he knew he was still on my mind. A very civil breakup.
My bf's ex on the other hand, she is nuts. She threatened him saying that he was a cheater for even talking to me. She didn't want to accept that it was over. She wrote things all over my facebook under a fake name about a month ago. She has told anyone that will listen to her that I stole him from her and that I'm a homewrecker. I'm just fed up with her lies.
For the record, I never did anything innapropriate with my ex when they were together. I never made any moves towards him at all. We were very civil and the only reason we really communicated was for our son ( exchanging pictures of him, comfirming drop off and pick up times, visits and the occasional inquiring of how he is). My bf says that we should go to the police and set up something like a restraining order. I'm wondering if just sitting her down one on one would set her straight though. Any suggestions ladies? Thanks
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