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What is he up to? ex.

I mistakenly sent a text to my ex-husband meant for the guy I'm dealing with/dating. This man (ex) cheated on me, walked out on me. Tried to leave me homeless. Has been bitter and vengeful since he left.. Today he shows up at my daughters school, and had her give me a card. We are no contact because of his nastiness.

I wonder what compelled him to drive all the way u here to give me a card. After all the threats and court actions, and he made sure I saw him.

The text was no big deal, it said. Thank u!! Things are going really well. I'm truly blessed. Call me when you get home lu.. Oh. And I tossed it out the window back at him, while he walked by. I know, but I'm trying to protect myself from his craziness.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:21 PM on May. 11, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (10)
  • so you did not open card and does not know what it said?
    does ex know the text was not for him?

    if you did not even read card, no way for me to know what he is up to

    stay safe, keep distance
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 12:40 PM on May. 11, 2013

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    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:58 PM on May. 11, 2013

  • When you figured out you texted the wrong person, did you text again and say sorry that was not for you?
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 1:06 PM on May. 11, 2013

  • Maybe I am missing something here, but from what you wrote it seems that you are the unstable one. Maybe he is trying to set your differences aside for the sake of your child. You should have just said that you were sorry that the text went to him, that it was meant for the man you are dating right now and left it at that. Throwing a card out the window seems a little immature. JMO.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 1:51 PM on May. 11, 2013

  • I agree. Tossing it out the window was wrong.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:39 PM on May. 11, 2013

  • Maybe he was just being nice.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 2:45 PM on May. 11, 2013


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    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) 3 hours ago


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    ^ that is new, the OP, posting a (.) in her own question




    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 4:12 PM on May. 11, 2013

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    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:05 PM on May. 11, 2013

  •  Op did another  ( . )

    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 9:25 PM on May. 11, 2013

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    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 9:25 PM on May. 11, 2013

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