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Prom night

My 15 year old is going to prom apparently her friends mother is renting my DD's friend a hotel room after prom and buying the DD alcohol. My DD asked if she could stay at the hotel I told her absolutely not. She said all her friends are staying. Am I being unfair?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:28 PM on May. 13, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • No. And when someone gets alcohol poisoning or gets in a car and gets killed, you'll be the one with a healthy, safe daughter who knows that her mother did what she did out of love.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 3:30 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • what the hell is wrong with that mother. Good lord does she want kids to end up dead, hurt, or pregnant. Great parenting there. No youre not being unfair. i wouldnt allow my child to go either.
    chrstny88

    Answer by chrstny88 at 3:32 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • No, my dd wouldn't be staying either.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 3:33 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • you're being very fair
    LostSoul88

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 3:36 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • My DD always complains when I don't let her do things that her friends do but I always tell her your not your friends!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:38 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • You are so full of shit.

    But the "am I being unfair" is a nice change of pace. Beats "opinions?" and "what do you think?"
    Mrs_Prissy

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 3:38 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • No I am not full of shit don't respond to my questions if you believe I am so full of shit.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:43 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • lol
    Mrs_Prissy

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 3:46 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • Not only would my kid not spend the night. I'd place an anonymous tip to the police.
    PandaGwen

    Answer by PandaGwen at 3:56 PM on May. 13, 2013

  • What is the legal drinking age in your state? Most it is 21.
    At what age would you like your child to get pregnant and have a child?
    If the answers to these are 16 or younger then you are not being unfair.
    If the answers are over 16 you are not being unfair at all.

    BTW I would report to the cops what your daughter told you and which hotel they would be staying in.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 4:18 PM on May. 13, 2013

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