My husband left his phone in my car and I found several (100) messages between him and a female we know who is also married, Actually we hang out with her and her husband. I am mortified my husband would text someone I know & that he would text the wife of a friend of his.
Her: hey you
her: just checking on you
him: awww you miss me
her: ya I sure do
him: Im in your neighborhood
her: oh really
him: ya what are you doing
her: cleaning house
him: are you in your pajamas cleaning house image, come watch
her: I want to watch you clean
days later he was supposed to take her a book for me
him: are you home
her: thought you were going to cum by
him: had to work
her: thought you didnt want to see me
him: you know that's not it
days later (our wedding anniversary)
him: silent treatment?
her: you know I would never give you the silent treatment
him: you want me to bring you this book
her: I sure do
him: I'm going to come give it to you alright
him: ya you know you want it
I guess after he left
her: I didn't even get my hug
her: you should come home more often
2 days later text her at 430am to ask is she up
next day him: I'm working at (name) new restaurant cum see me I'm lonely
This is where I found his phone he swears NOTHING happened. He had no intentions of being with her and does not evne like her,and is not attracted to her he says he just likes the attention, it is just flirting and means nothing, it was just joking.He says he was just texting and yes while he was texting someone, he was not texting this chick with intent to be with her and he does not like her at all. I find this to be impossible you are texting a person, so you are telling them that you want with them.
Also less than a month before I found out he has not been paying our bills, our home is in foreclosure & he kept it a secret from me. He has not paid our house payment in a year. I feel this info tells of his character thats why I included this info. And yes I am worried about my house being foreclosed on, the chick is just the latest in the saga of my lovely marriage.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:11 AM on May. 15, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by girlwithC at 10:18 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by wendythewriter at 8:41 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 10:09 AM on May. 15, 2013
Is my husband crazy or full of it?
he may be crazy, but is is 100% full of it
prepare yourself, the house foreclosed, the cheating with other woman, and who knows what else he is not being honest about
you are strong, you will make it through
Answer by fiatpax at 8:34 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by 3libras at 9:11 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by MooNFaeRie30 at 5:30 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by 3libras at 9:08 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 8:17 AM on May. 15, 2013
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:16 AM on May. 15, 2013
He's full of it, but you already knew that. You should be understand your finances, and check the mail, open bills, this is your life too. Sorry for what your going through. Good luck.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 9:41 AM on May. 15, 2013
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