Personally i think open adoptions are the best way to go about it ,however if your not happy with it you should try to find a Mother that doesnt want anything to do with her child. The biological Mother has the right to want contact with you and the child,she should be able to give that HUGE gift of a child to a family that respects that, you normally come together and agree on what your both comfortable with. Sounds like bio mom and you guys arent a match. I know a couple who have an open adoption they write letters and see the birth mother twice a year, its grest for the child, he knows the love is there from his birth mother and it will be easier when hes older and it has to be explained to him properly, he wont feel the abandonment many adoptive kids do, as his mother is still a part of his life.
at 3:20 AM on May. 17, 2013