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My kids were visiting their dad tonight. Well he texted me and said he put the pop up camper up and was putting them in there to sleep(the camper is in the yard of his moms house). Then he text me that he was having a friend over. I asked who and he said it was a girl that was coming and he was going to have beers and sit by the bon fire with her, and it didn't matter because the kids were asleep. I didn't feel they needed to be around that (there is no visitation order set) so I headed over to get them. He got upset and didn't see what the big deal was. I said Im taking them home. They don't need to be around you while your getting drunk with a girl by the fire. When I had pulled up the kids weren't even asleep yet and 2 minutes after I pulled in this girl pulled in. So I loaded the kids up and when he went to walk back toward his house I was that same way and we did that shuffle thing well then he said just fucking go and pushed me out of the way and I fell back into my vehicle and I sorta grabbed his shirt on the way into my vehicle to keep from falling. I then called the cops and they came out and said all they could do was file a report and that it was a he said she said thing and that he said I pushed him first. I get in the vehicle and my oldest whose 5 says mommy daddy pushed you. Then the cops said to just take the kids and go home. So I did.
My question for all of you is what would you do next?
Answer by PMSMom10 at 3:12 AM on May. 18, 2013
Why in the hell is he texting you all this anyway. Truthfully it is non of your business what he is doing when he has the kids. All of it was not necessary.
Answer by louise2 at 6:44 AM on May. 18, 2013
Answer by kmath at 5:13 PM on May. 18, 2013
Answer by leksismommy at 3:15 PM on May. 20, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 11:32 PM on May. 21, 2013
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