Forgetting the fact it is someone totally rampaging and probably sounding like a complete loon, if you read this from someone on Facebook (or here on Cafemom too, I guess)...and you had no previous knowledge of anything happening or what the person was doing before this was posted...do you think you would be able to guess WHO this person is talking about or WHERE this happened?
I got another lesson today that I need to just never talk to anyone, ever. You say something and that person takes it to 50 other people and what they tell those 50 other people isn't what and/or how you said what you said. Then you get reamed because you were saying things that you weren't saying in front of people you weren't even talking in front of. And then you spend the next however long trying to remember any word you said throughout the entire day as to figure out if you could have possibly of said anything else to have pissed someone off, or at the very least said something that could be used to add fuel to the original thing.
I think anytime I go to this place that obviously oozes drama, I will put duct tape over my mouth. But, of course, then I'm sure that will come across wrong to someone and then that person will convey that to 50 other people.
If you can't talk to anyone because you can't trust anyone, how in the world are you supposed to make friends with these people? It's not like I freaking grew up here and already know everyone!
I'll probably end up deleting this once this wears down a bit.
A friend of mine is getting a lot of heat because of this...people saying that it is giving a bad name to the place this happened. She argues that no one should know where it happened or even who it involved because she gave no specifics.
So...thought I'd take to CM for her and see if people who I know honest to God have no clue what is going on could figure this out...
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