I have been casually seeing this guy for a couple months. it was a friendship at first and at that time he told me that he had only dated one girl ever that was even slightly chunky. i saw her photo and she is absolutely average - not chubby at all.
I am a bit (a lot) heavy. 5'5" and 190 to be exact. So i would technically be his first fat woman.
how do i handle this? He is very caring and sweet. We have not moved on to anything sexual yet. Just hand holding and snuggling. But what about when sex comes? He will be used to amazing bodies and mine is not. at all. It's got a mommy pouch and fat thighs and large rump.
I'm serious. What would you guys do?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on May. 20, 2013 in Relationships
What would I do, enjoy each stage of the relationship.....don't be so self conscious, if he likes YOU then there is no problem there are a lot of men out there who secretly like meat!!!
Answer by older at 6:31 PM on May. 20, 2013
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Answer by tempsingl3mom at 7:17 PM on May. 20, 2013
Hmm, let's see if I have this right; he told you he only dated skinny girls & 1 that is considered avg. by most standards, but he considered chunky. And he paid for fake boobs for his skinny ex. He sounds very superficial to me & almost comes across as doing you a favor b/c you're not his "usual" type. I say embrace those curves, know that you are not fat, but voluptuous & if he tries to hint at anything less than that, dump him!
Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:23 PM on May. 20, 2013
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