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3 Bumps

If you heard one guy say this to another guy,what would your initial reaction be?

"Don't take this the wrong way,but I think you're really attractive,solidly built. You're a sweet guy." Guy #1 is my cousin's husband, guy#2 is her sister's boyfriend

 
butterflyblue19

Asked by butterflyblue19 at 9:45 AM on May. 25, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (24)
  • First off thought. The guy who said it is either gay or Bi.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 9:48 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • I'd have to hear the tone in his voice to really give a true opinion.
    PMSMom10

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 9:47 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • Honestly, I'd probably just blow it off. Grown men are like little boys--they all say weird shit that leaves you shaking your head.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 12:11 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Paulie has a point. I can find other women attractive & be envious of their body without wanting to sleep with them.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 10:12 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • With the disclaimer of 'don't take this the wrong way', I would assume it was a context thing and that guessing at the meaning just from that one comment would probably make me wrong.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 12:47 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Hard to say without knowing how they normally interact both with each other and with other guys...
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 10:06 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • Were they admiring each others supposed "6 pack abs" or talking about working out or protein diets? I used to work with all Men in my previous job & they always talked girly amongst themselves. I'd crack up! If it was a group then they would be all Manly. LOL!
    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:10 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • Well if they just met I'd say maybe he was just kind of letting the guy know of his approval. In a weird way though. Like saying "It was nice meeting you, you're a great guy."
    ThatBoysMom

    Answer by ThatBoysMom at 10:41 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • Since he said "Don't take this the wrong way" I wouldn't read too much into it. Now if he didn't say that and smacked him on the ass after complimenting him...then I'd worry a bit lol
    ThatBoysMom

    Answer by ThatBoysMom at 10:43 AM on May. 25, 2013

  • Hmmmmm....was there an insult hidden in there. I know guys jokingly insult each other all the time. If not, well, I've got nothing.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 9:48 AM on May. 25, 2013