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What is he thinking?

am divorced, but then boyfriend of 2 years decides to seperate and move out of state, because my ex won't pay child support and he doesnt like the way my kids behave. BUT he still wants to talk on the phone every day and says i love you to me every day. SO im confused, IF he really loves me wouldn't he be with me or at least in the same city ?? OMG confused

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Asked by Jenna104 at 6:34 PM on May. 25, 2013 in Relationships

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  • But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 6:36 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Yes, if he really loved you, he would've stuck it out & fought for you. He's selfish so, you need to lose his ass.

    Answer by 3libras at 6:36 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • This doesn't make any sense, sorry. I'd tell him that he's moved and you consider it a breakup so please stop calling.

    Answer by gdiamante at 6:36 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Stop answering his calls. Problem solved.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 6:37 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Stop taking his phone calls.

    Answer by kmath at 6:39 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Their is no confusion here.  He is stringing you along.  Tell him to go fuck off. Sense he is just a boyfriend. It is easy to get rid of him. Stop excepting his calls/texts.


    Answer by louise2 at 6:39 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • So he olny wants to be with you if theres CS coming in?
    Good riddance

    Answer by feralxat at 6:40 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Honestly, he's thinking that if things don't work out for him out of town, he will still have a warm bed to return to when he comes back licking his wounds.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 6:43 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • sure will if he really was into u he would of hang in there...

    Answer by smiley745 at 8:11 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • I'd tell him to get bent. He sounds selfish to me. He loves you but not your kids or your financial situation? Really?

    Answer by Ballad at 8:27 PM on May. 25, 2013

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