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What is he thinking?

am divorced, but then boyfriend of 2 years decides to seperate and move out of state, because my ex won't pay child support and he doesnt like the way my kids behave. BUT he still wants to talk on the phone every day and says i love you to me every day. SO im confused, IF he really loves me wouldn't he be with me or at least in the same city ?? OMG confused

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Jenna104

Asked by Jenna104 at 6:34 PM on May. 25, 2013 in Relationships

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  • But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 6:36 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Yes, if he really loved you, he would've stuck it out & fought for you. He's selfish so, you need to lose his ass.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 6:36 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • This doesn't make any sense, sorry. I'd tell him that he's moved and you consider it a breakup so please stop calling.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 6:36 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Stop answering his calls. Problem solved.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 6:37 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Stop taking his phone calls.
    kmath

    Answer by kmath at 6:39 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Their is no confusion here.  He is stringing you along.  Tell him to go fuck off. Sense he is just a boyfriend. It is easy to get rid of him. Stop excepting his calls/texts.

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:39 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • So he olny wants to be with you if theres CS coming in?
    Good riddance
    feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 6:40 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • Honestly, he's thinking that if things don't work out for him out of town, he will still have a warm bed to return to when he comes back licking his wounds.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 6:43 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • sure will if he really was into u he would of hang in there...
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 8:11 PM on May. 25, 2013

  • I'd tell him to get bent. He sounds selfish to me. He loves you but not your kids or your financial situation? Really?
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 8:27 PM on May. 25, 2013

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