A guy told me a few weeks ago that he thought we could be great for each other. He acknowledged that he didn't have much to give at the moment but that he was also capable of doing great things. I agreed and we have spent time together just enjoying each other's company and holding hands. Nothing more. Nothing sexual. So, last Saturday we spend a great day together. We spoke Monday and the rest of the week he was a bit distant. I asked him why and he said stress etc.
Well I look on his FB page at 5am (I cannot sleep) and the are 2 pics from 5 hrs ago on his profile of some slutty looking woman posted. And it says "John Smith was with Jane Doe" (basic FB lingo).
I am hurt & tempted to send him a message saying that I'm no longer interested in pursuing something. Then again we are not dating so why can't he be with other people. I guess I am hurt and confused as to whether I should even say anything. It's way too early for this crap.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:37 AM on May. 26, 2013 in Relationships
First. You thought you two were exclusive? But their was no verbal agreement you were?
I think you should just ask him. For your pease of mind, so you know what you want to do. Ask him. About him dating other while he is seeing you.
Answer by louise2 at 8:43 AM on May. 26, 2013
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Answer by PartyGalAnne at 10:20 AM on May. 26, 2013
Answer by hibbingmom at 11:02 AM on May. 26, 2013
Why bother calling him and telling him that? Send him the same signals you are getting from him. Don't call and don't answer his calls. If he calls and leaves a message, text him back and say sorry I missed your call, what's up? No need for a dramatic FB hair flip. Just casually move on.
Answer by QuinnMae at 11:16 AM on May. 26, 2013
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