I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. The first year was rough! About 6-7 months in the relationship, I had to find out on google that my boyfriend was still married. He says he didn't tell me because he didn't consider it real, they just quickly went to the court, and he didn't want to scare me away.
I called his ex-wife (apart for about 3 years now) to find out the truth. She claims that he tried to get back with her all the time while we were together, and that he was "obsessed" with her. My boyfriend of course denied this. She talked a lot about what hes done to her past, pointless to me, but I guess. And when she referred to the past, she would use 'love' in present tense. She would say "I think he got like that because he loves me so much". I don't know if she was just being jealous and spiteful or what. What I do know is there some truth in her part, and his. I just don't know what. She claims their not together because she left him, to be with a guy she got pregnant with, basically hes with me because he cant have her.
Enough with the ranting.
What I do know is he doesn't talk to her now, and things have gotten so much better between us. He tells me he will never talk to her again because theres no point, and hes in love with me and only me. But why do I think about her conversation a lot? Like it will randomly play in my head, and I will all of a sudden feel as if he tried getting with her while with me because i wasnt good enough. I trust him now, but everything she told me about a year ago, I still think about it, it still hurts. Just replaying the part when she said ' he loves her so much' makes me mad.
Have you ladies ever felt like this?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:52 PM on May. 26, 2013 in Relationships
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