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2 Bumps

My due date is September 2nd 2013 when did I get pregnant

Me and my husband were separated for a couple of months and I had a one night stand with my ex on November 29th 2012 me and my husband got back together on the 3rd of December and of course had intercourse but not until like the 8th and of course plenty times after ...my last menstrual period began November 25 2012 and ended the same day I had sex with my ex is there a possibility that my ex could be the father of my child?

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Confused5150

Asked by Confused5150 at 3:53 PM on May. 28, 2013 in Pregnancy

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  • Count backwards 40 weeks from your due date- and the only way to tell paternity is by DNA testing. GL
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 3:56 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • I am guessing your DH doesn't know about this, other man?
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 4:12 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • Add 280 days from the date your last menstrual period started to get your due date. With your two encounters so close together, I think the only way you'll know for sure is a paternity test.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 4:12 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • Assuming you have a average cycle of 28 days you would have ovulated around 12/10 and Implanted the embryo around 12/19.

    So most likely(statistically) the child would by your husbands.

    But like Mrs.mom said there is no way to know 100% without testing.
    tntmom1027

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 4:17 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • tntmom1027

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 4:20 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • @louise2 yes he knows I just want to know the possibilities of the child actually being my ex's
    Confused5150

    Comment by Confused5150 (original poster) at 4:28 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • enter course? Did you all take an algerbra class together?
    2kids2dogs2cats

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 5:05 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • Conception would have occurred on or around December 10th. The ex's sperm would have long died off by then. There is always a possibility so I would do a dna test to be 100%. Seriously though you shouldn't be sleeping around like that. Isn't anyone monogamous anymore?

    2autisticsmom

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 5:30 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • enter course?

    well that's what 4 days apart? Can I just ask WHY the heck you didn't use birth control?!

    I have no idea -but it could probably be either one

    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 5:46 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • Nov 29 and Dec 3
    too close to call for anyone to know which one is the father

    only a DNA test can reveal the father

    you can test after baby is born, test baby and your current husband, if not a match- you know it is the other ex

    do both men know that either could be the father?
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 5:49 PM on May. 28, 2013

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