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My son is turning 18 in six months and I have been with my fiance for 16 months. He doesn't abuse me in any kind of way, he loves me unconditionally. No he's not perfect but then who is? He doesn't have a stable job right now, however he does do the temp jobs and other legit things to bring money in. He's working on getting his GED so that he can get a stable job for our future. I haven't been with his dad in 13 years, so I really don't think it has anything with him wanting us to be together and he doesn't even like him all like that. I'm just real tired of him treating my fiance and me like dirt and he says he's going to disown me if I marry him. We're looking for a new apartment for next year when we get married and we don't want him to come. I know he's my son and I love him to death, but gee isn't it time for me to be happy??Answer Question
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 4:06 PM on May. 30, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 4:07 PM on May. 30, 2013
That's a tough one. Your son will be starting his own life in a few years & be out on his own. (That's how is supposed to be anyways) And your husb. is your husb. for life. (Again, that's how it's supposed to be :p) Have you asked your son why he doesn't like him? And have you told him why you love your fiance'? Maybe since he's been like the man of the house from the age of 4 or 5 up until 1 1/2 years ago, he feels like his territory is being invaded. I think a long frank discussion is in order here. Maybe even some family counseling. GL
Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:08 PM on May. 30, 2013
Answer by sarasmommy777 at 4:21 PM on May. 30, 2013
Answer by NannyB. at 4:22 PM on May. 30, 2013
Answer by anng.atlanta at 4:25 PM on May. 30, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 4:28 PM on May. 30, 2013
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