I recently posted about splitting with my kids dad and him meeting someone new and wanting to take the kids camping with her there.
I have expressed to him that I feel his weekends(he is getting every other weekend right now that's what we worked out between us so far) should be spent with him and the kids and not her, atleast not right away, the kids are only 5 and 3 and still adjusting to daddy not being around. He says that hes not going to choose one or the other and he is going to keep things equal between his kids and the girlfriend.
First of all there is no visitation order set. I have spoke to him about the camping thing and he finally changed his tune about that, but now its a new issue.
He now is going to meet this girls parents who live out of town on Saturday and wants to take the kids there because its a farm and they have animals. I told him I haven't even met this girl(which he keeps suggesting for me to meet her) and I don't think the kids should be there since its his first time meeting her parents. They have only been dating 4 days now. He is now jumping on my case about not trusting him and so on.
so again....Would you send your kids on Saturday?
and how can I go about these situations because it seems to be something different he wants the kids to come to each time with her and I hate having to argue about all this
Asked by Anonymous at 11:45 PM on May. 30, 2013 in General Parenting
Answer by kmath at 11:50 PM on May. 30, 2013
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:01 AM on May. 31, 2013
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Answer by virginiamama71 at 9:27 AM on May. 31, 2013
Next question overall
Anybody else have a SO that leaves for work and comes back?