My husband is constantly nagging or fighting with me over things. I never seem to do anything right with him. He has screamed in my face and basically told me I am not doing my job before. So yesterday I was fixing dinner. We were going to watch something on TV so he was sitting in the living room. I had gotten my sponsored child's letter(from India) in the mail and was going to write her back. So I had left the envelope on the table in the living room. My husband yells into the kitchen "how long am I going to have to look at that?" I told him I was going to write her and left it as a reminder. He then told me well he didn't want to see it. SO I walked into the living room to move it. I wasn't happy and he knew it. He then went on to say he didn't know why I had to be so mean. He then said forget it. just leave it. But I didn't and moved it into my room. I told him I wasn't mad, but he could tell I was. He said he didn't appreciate being treated like monster.
My question is am I over reacting? I guess I am just tired of his attitude and I don't show much love for him. He can't understand why. He thinks I should just accept him for how he is, and move on. It is hard after years of being screamed at, shoved out of his way, and told I am not doing my job in the house. I personally just don't care about him anymore, and can't just accept this his the way he is and move on. Any ideas? Am I being wrong? Am I just a baby or immature as I have been told?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:48 AM on Jun. 3, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:51 AM on Jun. 3, 2013
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Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 8:57 AM on Jun. 3, 2013
Abuse isn't always physical.
He's an ass and from the sound of it, none of the women here would try to make it work. Include me in with that group. I would take all of my shit out of the house so he didn't have to look at it. He also wouldn't have to look at some of each paycheck either.
Answer by QuinnMae at 8:57 AM on Jun. 3, 2013
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